Difference between younger and elders

Either it is elder or younger in family some of the natures does not change.. it was my more of assumption that elders are always more thoughtful, fearless and most of the cases take right decisions... but it looks like every one has fear, thoughtfulness is more of individual choice which does not depend on the age factor.

So don't think whether you are elder or younger it is always the best option to do what and individual think is right.. which may be time dependent but there are truths which are not time dependent..

Why not marry when you don't have a home..

Lot of time I keep hearing I need to have a house to get marry.. for me it is becomes uneasy to understand it..
I would expect a life partner of some need to be there from the beginning which gives appropriate meaning to a life partner.. it is more meaning full, beautiful to be together in bad times rather than to be in good time.. you will have lot of company in good time.. it is very important to have some one of our own in bad times.. so get marry soon so that you have some one with you always in bad time and good time..

House or home will be more beautiful have lot of meaning if it is been build with her/him.. don't wait to have house.. to get marry.. marry first ....

Sant 

She and She..

Mother you have left us when I was around age of 6-7..
it is easy to say no one can fit to your place..

as it was small age it is hard to imagine what I have lost as I don't know how the things could have looked with you now..

It was very short time that you have left some memories with me.. I still remember the house that we stayed..the day where I just stayed watching at you where you moved away from us..

I don't know by loosing you at that age..made me to think more..  searched a lot could not find a replacement for you.. but at last i believe i found some one who still with me knowingly unknowingly..

I don't know what I need to write for her.. she is best that I have in life .. hence tough to think and say what it could have been you being with us now .. accept fact when I think of you throat and eyes becomes heavy.. and I become speechless...

Tiruka.

Husband and wife Single identity VS individual identity

For me it is not easy to separate between husband and wife.. if wife is invited for some thing it indicates that even husband is invited.. or if husband is invited indicates wife is also invited.. may not be for all at least for the the family functions..  calling husband and wife individually  is little surprise for me.. and get to me the thoughts i.e.

Either husband and wife don't speak to each other..
Each has there is own identity, and it is not one unique identity..

at least in the world husband and wife live as a identity rather than separate one.

Is it always single or countable people dream?

Any achievements or any thing which happed by human kind in bigger size always looks like a individual dream

Which includes building a kingdom, country, company even small thing as living together in home.. it is always an individual thought.. examples: Ahoka, Alenxander, Jesus, Buddha money more..

Don't just dream, have a guts to chase it and achieve it..

Be prepared with conv information for any suggestion

As part of my life I keep hearing the suggestions.. what to do what not do.. but it is reasonably very less who  have conv information when I ask the question why I need to do.. why needs to be repeated to get the correct info.. and most of the time I end up hearing I need to do because soc expect me to do that.. I felt soc is mix of different thinking animals.. hence you always here a noise.. it is just close to impossible to do some thing without a noise.. it just does not exists.. so do what you think is right irrespective of whether you have buy in from all or no..

me and mine..

Now  a days do we have some thing like me and mine and you fight for it until your last breath.

Is it always adjustment and compromise.. most of the time looks like "Yes".. Some time it is hard to understand why we so carried away from the unwritten rule of society which does not carry a good reason or no reason..

That could be reason why we don't see much of the stories that we used to have in olden day's where people used to stick to what they think is right one..

Do we have some one now days who stick to what they think is right....


Keep breathing..

One thing to look at full all the needs.

It looks like just it is not possible to have only one thing to look at for us.. We look at parents for different needs/timings, look at wife for different needs/timings.. we have different friends for different interests.. it is just close to impossible to have only one person/one thing that you always look towards for your needs..

God seems to be single and only one person to whom we can look at, at any time.. with reason that he/she accept what you say there is no counter arguments and you always get support when you need it.. rather than want it..

Attachment and feelings.

We human beings can understand the pain for other human being easily, and express our feeling for the the same.
But every and any thing in this universe looks like has a life.. it is our limit that we are not able to understand the same... Example: For us it is more pain full when something bad happens to some similar to us i.e. human beings.. more closure to us more we feel the pain.. then to the animals.. then to the trees.. then ??????

I believe the reason we will not feel the pain of a tree is that we will not see the blood, bone and flesh there..
But nature is the only thing that treats every one equally. :)

Time is the best medicine for every thing that I ever seen

I was looking for best medicine for any thing.. and found it to be time.. with time every thing cures..
It could be disease, loosing some one close to you, going away from your loved once.. and could be any thing.. it is definitely cured with time..

Time is the best medicine for every thing that I ever seen..

Truth.

It is hard to know what is the truth as things changes with time..
We may not understand what person is trying to say.. or what person saying it self may not be true.. it is not easy to understand what person is trying to say.. some time I do think that language and expressions that we have not sufficient to express our self.. as there is lot of room for you being misunderstood..

Human being definitely mastered art of manipulation (some of us may not) there are all possibilities that there is some thing in human being tummy, some thing else in heart, some other thing in mind.. but may be speaking altogether different..

It looks like only kids up to particular age not mastered the art of manipulation.. some one who not mastered the art may look like a saint or mad man to society..

That being case  think a lot before you put forward something which is not good , express the same in the best possible way.. because there are lot of chances that you been misunderstood.. :)


It is very few or no one in life who could understand what you would like to say. It looks like more of strong guess , there point of view or thoughts.

Education and it's values

Not user present education system is helping us to make right decision in life. To know what to do not to do.

For me it is some of the books and observations that are helping me to make right decision. Education expected to be more than literate and have some certificate to fill the tummy.

I have seen graduates talking of cast for marriage when you have something as good match. I believe educated can't talk about the same it's only literate who thinks of the cast to live with person.