Why not marry when you don't have a home..

Lot of time I keep hearing I need to have a house to get marry.. for me it is becomes uneasy to understand it..
I would expect a life partner of some need to be there from the beginning which gives appropriate meaning to a life partner.. it is more meaning full, beautiful to be together in bad times rather than to be in good time.. you will have lot of company in good time.. it is very important to have some one of our own in bad times.. so get marry soon so that you have some one with you always in bad time and good time..

House or home will be more beautiful have lot of meaning if it is been build with her/him.. don't wait to have house.. to get marry.. marry first ....

Sant 

She and She..

Mother you have left us when I was around age of 6-7..
it is easy to say no one can fit to your place..

as it was small age it is hard to imagine what I have lost as I don't know how the things could have looked with you now..

It was very short time that you have left some memories with me.. I still remember the house that we stayed..the day where I just stayed watching at you where you moved away from us..

I don't know by loosing you at that age..made me to think more..  searched a lot could not find a replacement for you.. but at last i believe i found some one who still with me knowingly unknowingly..

I don't know what I need to write for her.. she is best that I have in life .. hence tough to think and say what it could have been you being with us now .. accept fact when I think of you throat and eyes becomes heavy.. and I become speechless...

Tiruka.

Husband and wife Single identity VS individual identity

For me it is not easy to separate between husband and wife.. if wife is invited for some thing it indicates that even husband is invited.. or if husband is invited indicates wife is also invited.. may not be for all at least for the the family functions..  calling husband and wife individually  is little surprise for me.. and get to me the thoughts i.e.

Either husband and wife don't speak to each other..
Each has there is own identity, and it is not one unique identity..

at least in the world husband and wife live as a identity rather than separate one.