Training mind not to worry.

With time,  understanding myself and getting out of the some thing called as worry is found to be very interesting..  Training the mind to not worry much when you have food and shelter seems to be one of the important aspect of it..

And other important stuff is that to understand is it is very less that you have in your control with respect to result, only you can put the best effort with result being unknown may be in your favor or may not be in your favor, as we don't know how much is enough ..   

To become I am no more I am

With getting older was trying to find the ways where I can loose my EGO and become more of I am no more I am. Some of the things which will help to loose your EGO are..

1. Work in the MNC where leader ship is located in the other location, and any one in other location will take you for the ride and taking advantage you.. and later it will help to realize that you been paid for what  is been told to you to do.. and with time you will stop bothering about growth, passion, ownership

2. Environment where you need to stay with couple of people with whom you don't have common subject to talk about and don't have common base understanding..

In both the cases initially you may show resistance but as it is more of need you will start loosing your EGO become and loose your identity cheers to the same 

I am no more I was..

If I look around other than human being they seems to be what they are by smell, by look and the life style until unless that is some thing manipulated by human.

When I look around my self  to find my self.. I lost the smell of my self by using man made stuff.. I don't know what I am as I keep modifying myself by wearing different cloths.. by doing different hair cuts.. by following different religion and much more.. . hard to know what I was originally and I am no more I was..

Troubles and way to handle them.

As an individual, I would like to talk about my problems/troubles with people who could guide me handling it.
Could find a good reason why it needs to be shared even some one close to you who can't help you out on this?

There is always a replacement.

I believe it is more of law of a nature to have a replacement. The replacement could be in the form of reducing the dependency or having some thing in place which is dropped out.

If you look in any organization the position will be refilled or will be removed (if there is no dependency) once person leaves the organization (Person leaving the organization include he leaving the world.).

Same case in personal life also, we may not replace the person as fast as organization replaces but definitely we look forward for either reducing the dependency or ask others to full fill our needs.

Nothing stops having missed some one.. It is hard to find some one who does not look for the replacement and try to do the things him self that are must to make the living.

Is it always a mix of swartha and Tirtha..

The meaning of swartha is that you look for you self and Tirtha is that you look for others needs also.
Most of us would say the work/decision that you have taken is not for yours need but it is the need of some close to you.. but most of the cases it would include the need of mine when I make  decisions..

-> A man with two kids making decision to marry again (after loosing the first wife), this include need of a man and need of kids. It will be unfair to say that the second marriage is to take care of kids for his/her personal need.

It will be very hard to have a decision where only one will benefit..

Difference between younger and elders

Either it is elder or younger in family some of the natures does not change.. it was my more of assumption that elders are always more thoughtful, fearless and most of the cases take right decisions... but it looks like every one has fear, thoughtfulness is more of individual choice which does not depend on the age factor.

So don't think whether you are elder or younger it is always the best option to do what and individual think is right.. which may be time dependent but there are truths which are not time dependent..